Five Secrets To Seduction
Article by Hope Alexander
March 19 2008. Article viewed 16869 times.
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So you have a hot date planned, and youīre hoping that it ends up between the sheets. No matter what you look like, or how much money you have, there are some simple techniques you can use to appear more attractive to women. Here are some hot tips to help you seduce that lovely lady.
Take The Lead
Women respond sexually to īAlpha Maleī types. Contrary to popular belief, this doesnīt refer to men who are loud, obnoxious, and violent. What it refers to are men who are cool, calm, and in control. They donīt lose their temper, they are kind and courteous to other people, and nothing much seems to shake them.
These types of men donīt whine about the service, or the fact that it is taking so long to get seated, they either tip the Maitreīd to hurry things along, or they engage their date in charming conversation. In short, they are gentlemen. You would be surprised at how few men approach women in a gentlemanly fashion in this day and age, and youīd probably be very surprised at how well women respond to that type of behavior.
Stand Up Straight
Yes, your mother was nagging at you for years to do that, but what she didnīt tell you is that it will help you attract women. Standing up straight makes you look taller, and it also helps you appear in better shape as standing up straight will naturally pull in any extra gut you might have. In addition to these benefits, good posture also makes your clothes hang better on your body. If you remember nothing else of these tips, try to remember that you can increase your attractiveness markedly simply by standing up straight.
Itīs In The Eyes
Attraction is all about the eyes, and it is natural when you are nervous to avoid eye contact. Try not to let any natural shyness overcome you when talking to your date. Looking her in the eye means keeping friendly eye contact when appropriate, not staring her down all evening. Smiling helps too. Studies have shown that men and women both find people who look them in the eye and smile twice as attractive as those who donīt.
Get In Touch
Touching her is another small method of seduction that can start at her doorstep. To begin with, avoid touching her in even relatively intimate areas. Stay away from her butt and her thighs, there will be plenty of time for that later. A good way to open physical contact is to guide her to the car, or into the restaurant with your palm on the small of her back. This is a very comforting gesture, and it will help her to feel safe with you. This is important as how safe she feels with you is one of the major factors that will influence how your date ends.
Talk About Her
Ask her questions about herself. There is a tendency to want to impress your date with stories about you and all the great things you have done, but it is much more important to talk about her if you are hoping to seduce her it. If she starts talking about her childhood, or personal matters, donīt be freaked out, that is exactly what you want. It means that she is being emotionally open with you, and when women are open emotionally, they are also open sexually. If she asks questions about you, do answer them, but return the conversation to her. This helps both preserve a little of your mystery, and it makes her feel as if you are really interested in her as a person.
Try these tips out next time you are on a date, or even just make use of them when you next approach a woman for a date. The most attractive quality a man can possess is confidence, and it doesnīt matter if you donīt feel as confident as you would like to, as the old salesmanīs adage goes, just fake it ītill you make it.
Happy Dating!
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