The Nice Guy´s Guide To Getting Laid – Part One
Article by Hope Alexander
March 30 2008. Article viewed 31266 times.
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If you´ve been reading along over the past couple of weeks you´ll have no doubt noticed that a lot of these articles have been about being confident and dominant in order to get laid. But what if you´re shy? What if you´re the sort of guy that doesn´t want to take charge? What if you´re not 6´2 and 220 lbs of muscle? What if you´re just a nice guy? Well there is nothing wrong with that, and absolutely no reason why you shouldn´t be getting hot sex as well. The truth of the matter is, there is more than one way to skin this sexy pussycat, and a sweet shy guy can find his way into bed with a hot girl just as easily as Mr Universe, as long as he plays to his strengths.
The great thing about being a nice sweet guy, is that women aren´t threatened or worried by you. Whereas they might think twice about letting some jock type get close to them, the nice sweet guys often find that women are often climbing all over them, sometimes literally. The problem isn´t meeting women, or getting close to them, it´s avoiding THE FRIEND TRAP.
The friend trap is abhorred by all males who want to sleep with women. It places you in perpetual limbo, you´re close enough that you can almost taste it, but you´re never allowed to sample her sweet delights. Instead you get to hear about all the assholes she is letting touch her whilst you seethe to yourself and try to avoid yelling at her and telling her how silly she is.
The good news is that you can avoid the friend trap, in fact, you can even use it to your advantage.
Most women are a little wary of guys touching them because they think they want sex. If you´re in the friend zone, or moving towards it, then you already have much more physical access to her than the typical ´alpha male´ might have.
Here´s the first trick in the nice guy´s getting laid arsenal:
The Massage
Women love massages, and you can easily begin to give her one when she´s complaining about whatever is bothering her in her life. Start with a shoulder massage, then once she is enjoying that, convince her that she would be more comfortable lying down. Slowly work your way down her body, massaging and kneading, making her relax. You can even slide your hands down the sides of her body, brushing the sides of her breasts without getting in too much trouble, giving a massage gives you a bit of scope for “accidents” that you´ll enjoy, and she may too. Keep an eye on her reactions too, does she get tense if you touch her in those places? If so, keep away, there is nothing to be gained from groping her when she doesn´t want it. If on the other hand, she shivers with pleasure, or makes a little moan, or gives some other verbal or non verbal cue, you can carry on.
As she relaxes, she´s also much more likely to get turned on. It´s hard for a woman not to become aroused during a good massage, especially if she is lying on her stomach, which puts some pressure on her clit. Having your hands roaming her body gives you seductive access like you cannot believe, and not only will you be making her feel good physically, but mentally and emotionally she is sure to enjoy the attention, and the fact that you are going out of your way to give her pleasure. If you don´t know how to give a good massage, learn. Pick up some books on it, or take a course, it is a skill that will do wonders for your sex life.
Move down from her shoulders and back, let your hands slide over her ass, and massage her legs for her. A nice gentle kneading motion on her thighs may just have her legs spreading, which allows for some “accidental” grazing of your fingers across her sweet spot. If she responds positively to your touch, from there on out, you are in my friend.
Now of course, this information comes with one major caveat. It is possible, as the immortal words say, that “she´s just not that into you.” If that is the case, then no amount of massaging is going to help your cause, and you should avoid the intimate touching mentioned above. However, if she´s on the edge, if she hasn´t really thought of you sexually as yet, and if she is open to the possibility of exploring something with you, then the massage technique can be just what you need to tip the scales in your favor. Even if you don´t get lucky the first time, if you do your job well enough, she will be begging for more at a later date.
It might not be hard for a woman to get laid, but it is damn hard to get a good massage.
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