Oral Sex Secrets
Article by Hope Alexander
April 05 2008. Article viewed 10395 times.
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Some guys love it, some guys loathe it, but being good at oral sex is always a plus when you´re with a woman. Being skilled at oral sex is probably the easiest way to boost your satisfaction rating when being intimate with a lady, because unlike the thrusting pounding part of the process (which is eminently enjoyable of course), it allows you more scope for creativity. Also, according to most surveys, that thrusting part of the proceedings lasts about 3 minutes for the average couple, so it is unlikely to be the part that she really remembers.
Oral, on the other hand, requires an intimate knowledge of the female anatomy, a delicate touch, and the ability to read your partner´s reactions. These tips are a guide for men who want to give their ladies mind blowing pleasure before they slide inside.
Find Her Clit
Women give men as a whole hell for not being able to find the clit. To be fair, it can be a little bit difficult on occasion because of the fact that no two pussies look the same, and whereas one woman´s clit might be as obvious as (something really obvious), some women are markedly smaller in that region. There is also the fact that the clit is generally covered by the hood to take into account, so many times you´re searching for a hidden treasure.
To save time and embarrassment here´s a foolproof means of finding her clit. Every woman has two sets of lips, the outer and the inner. Follow the inner lips up to the point where they meet at the top of her pussy. It is here that the clitoris is hiding.
Now, before you are tempted to expose that little nub and go to town on it, keep in mind that this is essentially a bunch of nerve endings. If she is not entirely aroused, then putting pressure or friction on her bare clit is not going to win you any favors. The hood can actually be your friend, because it dulls the stimulation, winding her up slowly, then, when she is wet and moaning, sliding the hood of her clit gently back and letting your tongue brush ever so lightly across her bare clit may be enough to send her to the stars.
Take Your Time
Men have a reputation for wanting to have their cocks stimulated straight away. No kissing, no cuddling, no messing around, just get down there and get busy on it. That´s the cliché, whether this is, in fact true, or true for all men is uncertain, but what can be said for sure is that going straight for the hot spots on a woman´s pussy during oral sex is not a good idea. There are two “hot spots”, fairly obviously they are the clit and her actual opening. Spend time teasing around both, and you´ll soon have her worked up into a frenzy. If you start out by pushing your tongue inside her, or licking at her clit, it may feel nice (or it may feel completely horrible if she is not yet ready), but it is almost guaranteed not be anywhere near as effective as if you have first spent some time licking and teasing near these areas.
Use The Tip
If you watch some porn, you´ll often see men going at women´s pussies as if they were fast melting ice creams, lapping at them in frenetic crazed strokes whilst the woman moans in pleasure. Forget porn. A pussy is not an ice cream, and whilst some lapping strokes can be effective, using the tip of your tongue to trace the outline of her lips, or circle around her clit or the entrance of her pussy is much more stimulating from a female perspective than having some guy furiously licking between her lips as if he´s starving and there are some crumbs of food in there.
Teeth
Teeth can be used, but please sparingly, and please gently. This will very much depend on the woman you are with of course, but in much the same way you wouldn´t appreciate having teeth biting your cock during a blow job, don´t expect her to have any reaction but pain if you bite her. (Some women like pain of course, so feel free to adapt this advice for kinky wenches.)
Obviously every woman is different, however following these tips as a guideline and starting point should enable to you avoid many of the pitfalls that make for bad oral sex. The pussy is a delicate, sensitive place, and can be teased and tortured with pleasure until she´s begging you to fuck her. On the other hand, if one is too rough, too enthusiastic, or fails to pay attention to the sweet spots, it can be an unpleasant ordeal that she won´t soon forget.
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